"The worst poverty is loneliness". This is a quote not from some famous personality with a great legacy. Rather this is the statement of a regular Hamiltonian resident when talking about facing poverty.
Living a life of riches we often turn to the impoverished we see around us in moments of altruism. Some of us may even feel a duty to help them out with the hopes that they would do the same if we were ever in that situation. We shower these people with money and gifts, hoping that they would enjoy it and be happy. Yet in all of this, we tend to forget that money and gifts do not bring happiness. It is the meaningful relationships that we make, that bring us joy and contentment.
How often have we ignored a friend in need of some company to be with popular people for whatever reason? We are so involved in helping the needy...well why limit that to those who need money? Why not help those that need company? I have seen relationships blossom and relationships sour. The reason for all of them have been company - excess or the lack of it.
Next time you see a friend or family member looking a little disconnected, or a little subdued and you have something else to do like an assignment to hand in, or a meeting to go to, take the time out for your friend. Trust me; the relationship that you will uphold will sooner or later be much more valuable than the late penalties for the assignment or a little slump in your work.
Life's too short. So give your best shot where it really counts.
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